The following are the qualities and action words associated with LAVENDER personalities:
Area Description .
Physical Sensitive physical body, pale skin, may be ungrounded or unrealistic often appear like angels or fairies.
Emotional Sensitive, enchanting, insecure, aloof, live in their own dream world, don't like confrontations and harsh reality.
Mental Imaginative, artistic, creative thinkers, visionary, idealistic, ideals and intuitions, fantasy, dreams, visualization.
Spiritual Mystical, higher dimensions, meditative state, angels, fairies.
Motivation Experiencing dreams and fantasies, mentally and spiritually creative.
Mission/Vision Imagination, manifesting their dreams into physical reality.
Growth Imaginative, from inside out make dreams a reality, bring then into world.
Exercise Grounding exercises, meditation, prayer, Qui-Gong, gardening, walking.
Recharge battery Connect with spiritual energy, creative and artistic expressions.
Communication Focus on inner connection, soft but artistic.
Interaction Unpredictable, follow their inner guidance, unstructured, spontaneous.
Relationships Need some solitude, freedom, mainly relationship with inner world, social.
Social, Friends Unconventional, few close friends, many imaginative relationships.
Sex, Intimacy Creative, light, experimental, transcendent.
Money Security, unreal concept, challenging and difficult to handle finances.
Success To be creative, imaginative and bring dreams into this world.
Occupation Be alone, all artistic and imaginative areas, quiet and peaceful environment.
Career Designer, artist, writer, poet, healer, spiritual teacher, consultant.
Lavenders prefer living in their own fantasy dream world. Enchantment, myths, inner "higher" dimensions of existence, angels and fairies are all concepts, which fill the mind and heart of a Lavender. They spend a lot of time in a world of imagination.
Lavenders are mentally and emotionally free to explore new possibilities, concepts and realities. They can function without any limitations. Whatever they can imagine is possible and real. This unique ability allows them to produce new, creative and often cutting edge ideas. Lavenders believe dreams come true.
Lavenders can perceive energies through their unique and powerful inner senses. Many Lavenders have the ability to see or sense other worlds and experience different realities. In communication within higher dimensions they are able to perceive ideas and concepts that go far beyond most understanding. They have access to spiritual and enteric energies, which they may use for healing. These fantasy-oriented personalities enjoy soft, meditative music, wind chimes, candles, incense, meditation and the rhythmic sounds of chanting. They enjoy any sound, color or environment, which can inspire their imagination. They love to leave their bodies in meditation on their quest for self realization.
Lavenders can be entertaining teachers. With their colorful imagination and amazing perception they can guide us into a land of fantasy and enchantment. In power Lavenders are wonderful storytellers, writers and artists. They have the talent to visualize and to describe magical mystical worlds where spirits and fairies reside.
Lavenders can take us beyond our limited, harsh reality into a world filled with incredible possibilities. They need to be free without physical, emotional or mental limitations. They need to fly with the wind, changing direction at their own will. They feel compelled to experience these inner dimensions, with their intuition or Guardian Angel guiding them all the way. Lavenders see life as a magical world full of adventure. They are here to stimulate the imagination of others, to inspire a sense of wonder and keep the idea of magic alive.
As a result of living more in their inner world then on the physical plane, they may dislike being confronted with reality. Physical reality, as most people perceive it, might seem cold, harsh and even brutal to a Lavender. Therefore they seek environments or situations where life is light, easy, pretty and enchanting. To them, their imagination is a real plane of existence where dreams come true. They know that beliefs and thoughts play a vital role in creating our physical world. Lavender personalities are able to use their imagination and thoughts to create and change realities.
When in power, Lavenders can use their creative talents to show people the unlimited possibilities of other realms. They have the ability to transform their visions into works of art, which can enhance the lives of their fellow beings. They need to be with visionary people who can see the potential in their ideas and are capable of taking action to help them manifest their dreams. Lavenders are able to inspire and stimulate others to create and produce new futuristic products and concepts.
Lavenders live by their feelings and intuition, rather than by their intellect. They have a very intuitive and creative way of thinking. They have difficulty processing analytical, rigid and structured concepts or beliefs. They want to be free to explore their imaginations and experience new realities. Their physical bodies are often sensitive and sometimes fragile. They may have small bones and a slight build. They might have little interest in physical activities, sports or exercise.
Lavenders are ultra sensitive beings with high sensory perception, causing their nervous system to become easily overloaded. Creating an environment filled with peace and harmony is essential. When Lavenders stay grounded in physical reality connected to their body, they are powerful spiritual beings using the art of imagination and visualization to enlighten mankind.
Lavenders who are out of power daydream to escape reality. They have a hard time differentiating between fantasy and reality. They may spend far too much time living in another world, making it difficult for them to express their imagination and share their experiences. Unbalanced Lavenders are forgetful and scattered. Their visions and ideas seem unrealistic, illusionary and impossible to bring forth into the material world.
Most out-of-power Lavenders have a major challenge functioning in the three dimensional world. They don't like dealing with day-to-day business activities such as paying their bills, shopping or interacting with others. Their task is to find the balance between physical reality, which functions through rigid scientific laws that seemingly cannot be changed by imagination, and the world of fantasy where these same laws can be transcended opening up unlimited possibilities.
The imagination of most Lavenders is so vast that they can visualize what God might look like. They have access to higher dimensions where reality takes on many different forms. If they learn to stay grounded and focused, they will experience union with God in the physical world. They have the capacity to bridge Heaven and Earth.
Lavenders are excellent teachers, able to support others in their personal spiritual growth. When Lavenders realize their true power, they can become extraordinary psychic counselors and therapists. Lavenders are free spirits, forever enticing us to discover the world of imagination.
Lavenders are usually fun to be around because they are stimulating, creative and extremely charming. They have a magical quality about them that makes them irresistible. Unbalanced Lavenders may be irresponsible, unreliable and difficult. They are often forgetful, changing plans with no regard for prior commitments.
Lavenders can sometimes be scattered. It's not uncommon for them to get up from their chair, go into another room and then forget why. Or they may drive their car for ten minutes without noticing where they are going. Their friends, partners and associates may have a challenge dealing with them. Some Lavenders may feel guilty or inadequate because of their unorthodox behavior.
Most out of power Lavenders try to adjust to society's rules and regulations. But they must understand that by accepting what they consider to be illusion, and not following their inner guidance, feelings of unhappiness and sadness will haunt them. They rarely wish to be involved in any rigid, spiritual or religious organization. Their mind is free and cannot be trapped in limited reality.
RELATIONSHIPS AND INTIMACY
Lavenders need sensitive yet strong understanding partners. Because they have a challenge with reality and being grounded, their partner will have to bring material stability to their relationship. When treated with gentleness, kindness and respect, they will in turn be appreciative and devoted mates, graciously sharing the magical enchanting side of themselves.
Lavenders do not necessarily need the closeness of others. Nor do they desire emotional or social nurturing from friends or family. They need enough space around them, without restrictions or obligations, to give them the freedom to live in their own world. Relationships are not a primary issue because living in their dream and fantasy world is quite fulfilling.
Lavenders are experimental and creative in lovemaking and like to fantasize during sex. They often leave their bodies and drift into other dimensions. Making love can be a very spiritual experience for them. If their partner is sensitive, caring and playful, they will enjoy sex creating a mystical experience full of unimagined pleasure for both.
Because of their fragile physical and emotional system, Lavenders choose their partners with the utmost care. Sex for them is a very intense and powerful experience and can easily create emotional traumas with a mate who is not sensitive to their vibrational frequency. A healthy sex life allows them to feel their physical body while still being connected with their inner dream world. Relationships provide an insightful mirror for Lavenders. The challenge of a Lavender is to stay centered and grounded, and a compatible relationship will assist them in balancing their emotional / spiritual side with their physical body.
Lavenders may be attracted to all physical color types but in reality they will have quite a challenge in creating lasting relationships. Reds, Deep-Reds, Orange and Yellow personalities are much more physically active and creative, whereas Lavenders may feel more comfortable exploring ideas in their mind. Orange-Yellows may be too realistic and mental for the imaginative and artistic Lavender.
Lavenders love the playfulness of Yellow personalities. Greens and Deep-Greens enjoy communicating with Lavenders and are stimulated by their mental activity and vivid creativity. Blues and Lavenders are usually good matches, but may lack the direction and strength to make a relationship work. Violets and Whites have a lot in common with the imaginative and spiritually oriented Lavender and their test will be to help ground each other.
If Lavenders find enough freedom and support in a relationship they will be loving and devoted, opening doors to an incredible world of magic and fantasy.
CAREER AND FINANCES
Lavenders will be found wherever imagination, fantasy and visionary thinking is needed. Many are in artistic professions or performing arts where they may have very fulfilling careers. As writers, actors or artists they are free to explore their creativity, manifesting their dreams into reality. Through their visual and imaginative style, they have the unique ability to take people into a fantasy world, which is alive with feelings, sensations and magic. In healing and therapy, Lavenders are able to use their psychic ability and spiritual experiences combined with their knowledge of the inner worlds, to help and support others.
Lavenders overcome their obstacles by being creative and inventive. Because they are imaginatively resourceful, they can come up with unorthodox and what may appear to be unrealistic solutions. They are perfect in finding creative solutions but are often too ethereal to do the physical work required to complete projects. They must gather a powerful technical team around them to manifest their visions.
When Lavenders are out of power they don't want to confront their obstacles. They escape into their fantasy world, simply wishing not to be bothered. Lavenders are creative and intuitive problem solvers but too much mental work, thinking and analyzing can easily overload their sensitive system.
Lavenders have difficulty in dealing with the physical reality of money. Earning money is a challenge and they are capable of spending it very quickly. They like to be supported by others but must still confront themselves with the day-to-day reality of making a living, paying bills and creating prosperity. One of the tasks of Lavenders is to learn to bring their imagination and focus into their financial situations.
Lavenders may not be attracted to positions of leadership or occupations, which involve demanding stressful work. They are sensitive and friendly, working best in low stress, quiet environments. They do not prefer regular office jobs or analytical, mental occupations. They should find activities where they can integrate their creative imagination and fantasies.
Some Lavender occupations are: storyteller, artist, writer, mime, actor, dancer, designer, decorator, teacher, spiritual teacher or healer.
HEALTH, WELL-BEING AND GROWTH To stay in power, Lavenders need to understand the importance of physical reality. Their challenge is to remember that we were born on this planet to experience all aspects of life and that we live in a three dimensional, physical world. As long as they are courageous enough to face the real world and to stay in touch with their bodies, they will live a joyous and fulfilled life. They have a need to explore other worlds and live out their fantasies and imagination. Their test is to express their visions in the physical world.
Lavenders need to escape into their dream world for the same reason most people require sleep. They often need to deeply relax or meditate. Creating a peaceful environment where they have lots of time to think, imagine and create new dream worlds is essential for Lavenders. They must constantly unwind and recuperate from the stress of the physical world.
Meditation and visualization are familiar concepts to them. Their test is to connect to their personal power in the lower Chakras -- their survival on the material plane, their relationships and emotional body, sexuality, ego and personality. This will ensure their success in dealing with life and expressing their creativity and inner strength .The more Lavenders are able to ground themselves, the more they will make their ideas and dreams a reality.
Lavenders are not very attached to their physical bodies. They may be fragile and may often have small bones. Because they have a challenge to be grounded, they need to take care of their physical body on a regular basis. Exercise, such as walking, gardening, swimming and other gentle forms of physical activity, will help Lavenders stay connected to their body.
Imagination is a powerful tool for Lavenders to heal both themselves and others. To create balance, their challenge is to live consciously in their inner worlds while maintaining connection to their bodies and the reality of the physical plane.
Lavenders love creating sacred spaces with incense, aromatherapy, candles, lights, color, plants and music, to support their magical experience of inspirational and spiritual journeys.
As long as Lavenders use their ability to connect with other worlds, inspiring imaginative thinking to create new ideas, concepts and forms, they will be happy and content and will have an empowering influence on themselves and on our planet.